Cleaning and scrubbing will wait ’till tomorrow, but children grow up, as I’ve learned to my sorrow. So quiet down cobwebs! Dust go to sleep! I’m rocking my baby. Babies don’t keep. – Ruth Hamilton

Wednesday, August 21, 2013

It's a New School Year For Us





Going back to work is hard!  It's especially hard when you are used to working part time.  I made the decision this year to go back full time-for my family.  It's not always about the money, but it will be nice to live a normal life again and contribute to Mack.  Avery and Mack will be going to half day preschool and I will be able to see them when I want!  Lincoln will get some one-on-one time with Meme and he will be enrolled in Little Gyms as well as swim lessons.  Our new change will be good for everyone! 
 
This past week was hard, so on Friday I decided to take Avery with me for the day.  She loves to hang out in my classroom and play-and hang on the playground.  Meanwhile, I received the most precious pictures of my boys!  They are becoming true brothers and I hope they never leave each others sides!!! 
 
I think our new world will be great and a great way to meet more families!

Tuesday, August 20, 2013

I Can't Believe It!


The last week has been a little crazy.  Mark had to drive Mack to St. Louis at 11:00 at night because he had a fever.  We thought this was better than trying to go to our local ER and then be sent to St. Louis.  So...at 11:00 at night I went upstairs to pack my 2 year old for his ?? visit to the hospital.  He immediately jumps out of bed to pack up his pillowcase and puts in his favorite toys as well as his favorite books.  I was in awe of a 2 year old who had such ease with packing himself up in the middle of the night to go to the hospital.  He told me he hoped he got to have new doctors this time!  What?!?  I am thankful he is this way now, we have many more visits ahead of us and he is making these trips easier.  It still blows my mind.
He received antibiotics and they let us go home.  Mostly because they knew we would bring him back if anything happened. 
 
Then, we were in the ER on Monday because he was VERY lethargic and screaming/crying his stomach hurt.  We are hoping at this point it was constipation, but his blood pressure was REALLY low.  I'm not sure it gets any easier, but we do have our routine down and are thankful to have such amazing children who help when mommy and daddy have to leave.
 
Luckily, we had one terrific weekend!  My cousin, his wife and their two children came to visit us.  It was so cool to have my kids hang with their second cousins!  We hung outside all night-too late!  The kids finally snuggled up for a movie night.
 
Since Mack has been sick, we have said no to any help from other people-which is why our friends did a fundraiser for us without us knowing!  We were so thankful and couldn't ask for more. Then, one day, while the kids were napping our friends came by and asked if they could honor Mack at their annual golf tournament.  We immediately said no, but as time has gone on we do see the benefit of help for Mack.  Maybe not now, but Mack will always have to have a doctor for the rest of his life.  He will have to have blood drawn every month-for the rest of his life!  What if he was denied coverage?  This is why we said yes.  So Macklin will have support all through his life.  We couldn't be more thankful for this-not only this fundraiser, but just the love in general.  I've said it multiple times, it's our whole community!  Our work families, our friends, our FAMILY and the Columbia community! People love our son, and for that I couldn't ask for anything more!

Here was the first picture I received.  Ugg...it brought tears!

Then this-the middle one is from Mack's cousins (brown dog is a cousin too).

I didn't even know about this!  My best from high school did this without me knowing.  My dad said this one brought tears-Macky!


After the tournament, Mark and Mike picked us up and we headed to the bar where the raffle was held.



It was fun to be out and thank the people involved.





These are more friends and my dad's company!
 




I'm overwhelmed and never thought we would be these people.  Man I want to give back to others when we can!!

After a couple of scares, it was nice to have some fun!  Thank you, Thank you, Thank you a million times!  To all that were involved and all that just love my son!!!

Monday, August 12, 2013

I Let A Week Slip

Opps...I let a week slip without a post!  Our last week together (before I head back to work) ended up full of travel.  We headed to Mack's appointment on Tuesday and got to visit with my cousin and her kids.  They are finally getting old enough to play with each other!!  I love these kiddos together!  Plus, we had our moms there to help.

Mack's appointment was good.  They (the doctors) believe we are almost out of the woods for a bone marrow transplant!  They believe he is doing great and we need to stay the course.  We believe them!  He is looking and acting better and we are having less behavior issues with him-I think it's because he is starting to feel better.  They (the doctors again) told us he could go to preschool and sign him up for a beginning soccer class.  We were advised to put a tight shirt under his clothes to keep his "tubie" tight.  We will also keep a close eye on any sicknesses going around the school (luckily, I will be at the school to look out for him).  He also has the BEST teacher and I fully trust her to look out for him.  He will get extra snuggles at my school!
Here he is in his Super Cape from Dr. Meghan!!!  She is so thoughtful!

We had lunch with their cousins after his appointment and then headed back home.  The kids were exhausted! 

Then, Thursday night we headed to the lake.  My best friend from high school was on her way down with her family-it was the first time we had them all together.  What a great weekend!!  The kids (five-3 and under) got along the whole time-there were no fights and everyone slept well.  I just wish they lived closer!!!  Hopefully it will be something we do every summer...and next year we won't have babies!  The best part was bringing our kids together after so many conversations about our kids on the phone and to see them interact.  They are great friends and I cherish our time together.






 Okay...maybe Lincoln wasn't always the nicest kid!
 Not sure what we will do with him and sharing with others. 
 This was my doll house as a little girl-my mom made it!  Avery loves it-we found her playing with it in the mornings.
 How else do you wear 5 kids out?  Swimming on the dock with water balloons!